Is Your Weirdness Your Crutch?

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A TCK contributed this article anonymously to my blog. Coming from someone who grew up abroad, it means so much more than if I had written it. Does it resonate with you? >>> Continue reading

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Why Do TCKs Have to Be Different?

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I admit, I don’t know what it is like to be a TCK.

I was raised in rural America, lived in the same house growing up, had the same friends, spoke the same language until my family moved my senior year in high school.

So when my TCK daughter says in view of college looming ahead, “Why do I have to be the one who hides and forgets my past?”

I have thought about what to say in response.

Along the way I have heard other TCKs say, “Why couldn’t I have had a normal life? Why couldn’t I grow up with friends all around me? Why did my parents bring me to the USA and dump me? Why do I have to be so different? Why can’t I be like everyone else?”

I think those are pretty typical teen questions no matter where you were brought up. But admittedly, TCKs are a different breed of birds:-)

So to answer “Why,?” I’ll say what I said to Lilly. Why? Because God has a plan for you, and this different-ness is part of His plan.

Jesus said as much to Peter, who also wondered “why me?”

“So Peter said to Jesus, ‘Lord, and what about this man?’ Jesus said to him, ‘If I want him to remain until I come, what is that to you?  You follow me!'” John 21:21,22

What Every TCK Needs: A Faithful Friend

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I am still new to this country and culture.  For the first two years that I lived here, Desire, my neighbor-friend, held my hand.

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TCK Shares Personal Experience

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I love TCKs.  I have talked to many of them about their lives as TCKs.  I have ideas, suggestions, etc.  But there is nothing that compares to hearing yourself from the source.

So I asked several adult TCKs a question: What helped you the most in your return to the States for college?  I will be posting their answers. If you are a parent of a TCK, listen to these adults and their responses.  —  Bonnie

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